7 NON-SEX TIPS THAT WOULD MAKE YOU A BETTER LOVER (FOR MEN)
Everyone that’s in a relationship wants to be a better lover, but who
really is a better lover and why is it so important to be a better
lover? A quick look at the dictionary describes a lover as a person in
love, but we all know that being in love doesn’t actually mean you are a
good lover; so that means there is a good and a bad lover.
Think of some relationships that you have been in or even your
present relationship; when you think of some of your partners, you feel
so agitated and still when you remember some, a quick smile lights up
your face.
The big question is: who is a good lover and how can one be a better lover?
A good lover is that partner that leaves smiles on the face of their partner.
1. UNDERSTANDING
Shouting on the top of your voices, raising the roof and throwing
insults at the slightest provocation would never make you a better
lover. To be a better lover, building understanding in your relationship
is highly important and you can never build understanding in your
relationship if you don’t understand your partner. This can be achieved
by avoiding that temptation to act on impulse at the slightest
provocation.
2. LISTENING
The ability to listen is one that’s always being emphasized upon and
rarely adhered to. Every lady loves that man that can listen to her;
listening is the first step to communication; when you listen to her
then you would understand her better. You can’t build understanding in
your relationship when you don’t listen. A lady’s voice needs to be
heard too.
3. DATES ARE NEVER A CLICHE
Taking your lady out on dates would always make her feel special; it
shows you care about her, it shows you care about the relationship and
it would as well build the bond in the relationship. Going on dates add a
special and different feeling to a relationship and every man should
know this.
4. BE ROMANTIC
Have you ever thought of why every lady loves a man that’s romantic
man? Ladies are drawn to a man that can awe them and a romantic man
would always do that. Never wait for a birthday, event or anniversary to
spring up a surprise; never wait till your relationship is going down
the hill before you do something extra. The best tip to being a more
romantic partner is living every day like it was your first—the reason
is, when a man meets a lady for the first time, he’s ready to do
everything to show that he cares; that mentality should never be lost.
5. DON’T BE TOO ARROGANT TO SHOW YOUR FEELINGS
Most women see men as being stonehearted that it’s now a cliche.
Being confident is a good thing but I doubt the significance of being
arrogant. If you really care about your lady then don’t be too hard
hearted to show it; show her you love her through your words and in your
actions.
6. DON’T JUST BE A LOVER, BE HER FRIEND
A relationship is more fun and enjoyable when partners aren’t just
lovers but friends; if you can’t be friends with her then you can’t be a
better lover. A relationship is boring when there is no fun, no play
and no jokes—that’s a rigid relationship. Being friends with her might
mean you’d have to put up with a bit more feminine things but it doesn’t
matter—be her friend and then be her, and you would definitely be a
better lover.
7. COMPLIMENT HER
Complimenting your lady shows that you appreciate her and every lady
loves to be appreciated. Every man loves it when her man sees her as
beautiful, as an angel and the best woman he could ask for.
Complimenting your lady is never ordinary; it’s the key to always
putting a smile on her face.
Being a better lover doesn’t always have to be in the sheets; if you
don’t know, the non-sexual part of a relationship affects even the
sexual part of a relationship. Be the better man, be the better lover.
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